ATTITUDE FOR WORK

Assalamualaikum..

I found this from this eye-opening site. 
It is funny and i think it should be shared. 
Well, it's just a joke, i hope no one is hurt.

Japanese attitude for work:

"If one can do it, I can do it.If no one can do it, I must do it." 

Middle Eastern attitude for work: 

"Wal-la-hi if someone can do it, let him do it.If no one can do it, ya-habibi how can I do it?"

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POU - OUR VIRTUAL ALIEN PET AND TIPS FOR MAKING IT GROW FAST

Pou is his / her name. It is actually a virtual pet having no gender, or it should be decided by the down-loader of the application. 

Kei loves to play Pou. I love it, as well, especially with the fact that it also comes with a lot of games. There have been more than a million and a half people downloading this game, and i understand why. Having Pou as a pet doesn't bother me at all. She (I'm making her a female alien pet) doesn't whine when she's sad or hungry, when she gets fat, I can just give her the fat burner potion and she'll lose a lot of weight in seconds, she eats anything as long as she's hungry, and she says yes to whatever i dress her with. 

Pou has been kei's friend since about three months ago, even though kei has also deleted this app twice!! Last time she did it, her Pou was already on level 30 something, and it was hard work you know. 

She's still asking about Pou when she wakes up, though. Last time she removed Pou by accident from her Tab, i told her that she herself who removed it. And Kei understood it! Eversince, she has always asked and answered the question herself. Yesterday she asked me in Bahasa, 

"Mama, Pou mana?" 

I asked her back, " Mana Pou?"

Then she said again, "Pou udah gak ada, diapus. Sama kekei."

Having been asked about this over and over, I decided to (again) download Pou application for my daughter, and then the good thing was, I also found another application on Android Playstore named Pou Final Cheats. I was initially afraid that it was just malware or some kind of harmful viruses. However, I went through all of the reviews and none said it was bad or that it contained viruses, so i downloaded it.

And I am glad I did.

Last night at around nine-ish, I started downloading the application (one on Kei's Tab and one on my smartphone), continued by using the tips, and they worked!

In less than ten hours, Kei's Pou has rocketed up to level 8! The tips are fairly easy. No download, just by using the work of your fingers :] I don't plan to use them for my Pou, though. I'll just be a normal pet keeper, and play games as often as I want to. 

Kei's Pou, level 8 this morning, and very trendy :]

My Pou, who's still tiny and half naked :p

There are a number of tips, you can use some or all of them. Here they are :

A1. Feed your Pou until s/he is really fat.

A2. Forward the date of your mobile 1 day.

A3. Repeat steps A1 and A2. The more times you do it, the more levels of your Pou will go      up.

B1. Feed your Pou, play with it, and wash it.

B2. Forward several hours of your mobile so the game thinks the time has passed.

B3. Repeat steps B1 and B2. With the above tricks, gaining levels will be fast.

C1. Buy lots of fast food and Fat Burner potions.

C2. Continue feeding Pou until it doesn't want to swallow anymore.

C3. Give your pou Fat Burner potion to make it lose weight.

C4. Repeat the above steps as many times as you want.You will gain levels at full speed.         These tips also work with the Hunger potion.

Well, I have to rush on preparing breakfast because Kei and our Pous are sleeping so I'm still a bit safe :p

Tmelania

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GRATITUDE LEADS TO CONTENTMENT

Assalamualaikum, good afternoon everyone.

How's today been treating you?

My day has been good to me. Waking up with some chocolate biscuits and hot white coffee and also good news about something. Praise Allah :]

I had a chat with a female acquaintance yesterday.

We have actually known each other for a few months, but the talk we had was actually our first real talk. You know what I mean? 

Meeting and interacting with her nearly every day and by taking conclusions from what she looks like; I had always thought of her as being very independent, individualistic, and free.

Well she is very independent. She has been living on her own for almost fifteen years, some time after her mother's death. She isn't that close to her other 8 siblings, and that she has been through a lot of stuff all by herself.

She did mention about being satisfied with what she already has and what she has been. 

Environment, most from friends, has shaped her character. However, little influence is from her family.

Hearing her talk about her life made me think, yep I am a lot luckier than her. 

She is accustomed to being pressured by her father who used to hit and verbally abuse her and her siblings when they were little. Therefore, being pressured by the target from her workplace is not that big a deal.

Whereas if I had to be put in her shoes, I would initially burst into tears the moment my superior yells at me for not reaching the minimum target.

I have to be more grateful for everything I have right now. 

I'm not fully there since it's a continuous learning process. 

It doesn't mean I don't want to change some things for the better; but it is more about being thankful for what has happened and what has been achieved.

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Impact Site Analysis

If this is your first time here, I recommend starting from the conclusion page.

This post estimates the direction of the rocket trajectories, by analyzing the impact sites in Zamalka. 

Impact Site 1

This impact site has a rocket dug into the ground which was investigated by the UN, and which they believe was undisturbed. The UN visit to the site is well documented (Video 1, Video 2, Video 3), and seen in this photo:

This location was accurately identified here. 

The video below shows the rocket from several directions, and it is clear its angle with the wall is 60-70 degrees:

A few screenshots:

Drawing a 60-70 degree angle to the wall on a satellite image gives us a northern trajectory (The red trajectory is what the UN mistakenly reported).

Impact Site 2

This site was matched to a location 100 meters east of site 1. This photo of the site (and more here) clearly show the crater is oriented at a right angle to the plough lines:

Placing this on the satellite image gives us another northern trajectory:

Impact Site 3

This site is a direct hit to a building, examined by the UN investigators in the following video:

At minute 1:40 we see the impact hole at the northern wall and no signs of an angled impact. At minute 1:28 a shadow line is seen, indicating sunlight is coming from behind and slightly to the left. In this video the team is seen exiting the building from the other side. At minute 2:11 shadows are seen on a balcony in the background:

These confirm the angle of the sun as coming from behind and slightly to the left of the impacted wall (which is on the opposite side).

Based on the UN report (Page 26) this visit occurred at August 29th 13:35. Since the sun at that time was at South-South-West, this means the balcony is facing north, and providing us a third indication of a northern trajectory.

Conclusion: The rockets were launched from a location north to Zamalka.

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AN UNSEEN IMAGE IN OUR BEDROOM

Assalamualaikum dear blog readers...

It surely has been a while. 

Been busy preparing myself for something that's coming ahead on just a few days. ANyways, i hope everyone is healthy, happy, and having a good time today :)

You know what Kei said to me last night while I was with her in our bedroom??

She said, "Mama, there is a man there."

I replied, "What man? Where?"

She responded, "There, pointing to the right corner of the ceiling."

I started feeling uncomfortable, but still I managed to ask another question, "What is he like?"

Kei answered, "The man is scary mom."

Arrrgghh I instantly burst out from the bedroom, leaving her by herself, and talked to my younger cousin who was watching TV in the living room. I was speechless, didn't know what to do.

A minute later, kei followed me and went towards me and started talking about "that man" and I started asking questions about other things she had seen.

Five or ten minutes later, we went back to the bedroom and my mouth started praying and mentioning Allah's name. I took Kei to bed, and my mouth was still busy saying the Ayat Kursi aloud, then continued to the three other prayers I always read before bedtime. Continuously.

It was not my daughter's first time telling me that there are other people around us. It doesn't happen very often either. Kei has ever mentioned that my late aunt was in the room above us while we were ready to sleep, also about a grandmother, that sort of stuff. But the one she mentioned last night kind of made me have goosebumps, i don't know why.

We, Muslims, believe the existence the unseen ones like the Jinn, Shaytan (evil), and also Angels- in Arabic Mala'ika, which means to assist and to help - in Indonesian we call them Malaikat , (but NOT the ones other beliefs characterize them with - in our belief, they are NOT God's children/daughters; they're also Allah's creations instead. Mala'ika / angels are created to worship Allah alone and carry out His commands. It is mentioned in Surah An Nahl (The Bee) - 16: 49-50.

"And to Allah prostrates whatever is in the heavens and whatever is on the earth of creatures, and the angels [as well], and they are not arrogant. They fear their Lord above them, and they do what they are commanded. " 

As unseen creatures made from light, angels have no specific bodily shape but can rather take on a variety of forms. The Qur'an does mention that angels have wings (Quran 35:1), but Muslims don't speculate on what exactly they look like. Muslims find it blasphemous, for example, to engage in making images of angels as cherubs sitting in clouds.

In Islam, there is no concept of "fallen" angels, as it is in the nature of angels to be faithful servants of Allah. They have no free choice to disobey. Unseen beings who do have free choice, and who are often confused with "fallen" angels, are called jinn (demons). The most famous of the jinn is Iblis, who is also known as Shaytan (Satan). Muslims believe that Satan is a disobedient jinn, not a "fallen" angel.

Regarding what my daughter had seen or thought she had seen or the image she made up the story about last night, I am sure it was either a Jinn or Shaytan trying to scare her.

Alhamdulillah she wasn't. I was, a bit. But then I said to myself that why I would have to fear another creation of God, I should be fearing the Creator, Allah only. 

I hope Allah always protects my daughter and I and also my dearest ones, amin :]

Tmelania

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WHEN A MOM IS TIRED AND WORN OUT

Assalamualaikum...

Good morning people, taking some time on the internet while baby is still enjoying her sleep time. I'm not sure if I have been doing it right about this. Kei wakes up later than most kids her age I think, and some people tell me that it is not a good habit. If I keep letting her wake up at any time she feels like, then when she starts school, it will be difficult for I and her to get used to the morning routine.

Only just a few days ago, I questioned myself whether it is me who's doing it the wrong way or is it others who are basically just telling me what to do.

Kei has been draining my energy these past two weeks. She is seriously showing off her "terrible two" behaviors. She pinches me and others for no reason, she says "NO" when asked to pick up things she throws away, she cries and cries and murmurs words I don't understand when she's asked why, she screams, she grabs stuff from others without asking permission, she refuses to sleep early or to take a nap. Oh my sometimes i am so tired i yell at her. And minutes after realizing it i say sorry to her. i feel like i am running out of ideas to just make her say okay mom.

Two days in a row, she pooped in her pants. However, whenever she gets asked about where she is supposed to pee or poop, she instantly says "the toilet/the bathroom." I just don't get it. I try not to yell or call her silly, i try so hard. Hope Allah forgives me for being so selfish.

She is just a two year old, we may think two year olds aren't capable of anything crucial, but they are. They usually see what we say or do as the right things. When we aren't consistent with what we're doing, then they get confused. They like to see our reaction. When we're angry and burst out, they will find it amusing and may try another similar thing to see how we will react again.

As a two year old, kei must love playing. So why don't I try to play more often with her? The sad thing is sometimes i get so drowned in completing my chores until I have very little time for kei. I need to try harder i guess. As a person with a child, i should behave like a child when i'm with her. 

Bear this in mind (for me and moms and dads out there). DO NOT ever hit your child. 

I kiss my daughter very often even though sometimes kei doesn't let hug her for more than 10 seconds. She hates being hugged like a little baby now. Parents must kiss their kids so that they understand how much they mean. Remember that we have to teach our kids not to accept kisses or hugs from other people except family members and to report to us if someone (ie. stranger) tries to.

As parents, we must try not to order or forbid our kids too much. They are learning things by themselves. As long as their action isn't fatal (dangerous) for them and others, let them do it.

I have always tried to keep my promises to her. When kei wants some cold drinks, i tell her she's still coughing but when she is fully recovered then it'll be fine to get her some. When you tell them you're going to buy them ice cream, then do so. Don't make excuses when you forget it. It is one of the pillars in raising and training kids. 

I haven't been able to teach Kei to knock on the door before entering a room / a house. Well she does knock but directly opens it without waiting for an answer. This is a guideline for kids to always knock on doors (especially bedrooms). We don't want our kids to see what we and our spouse are doing in bed, right.

Since months ago, during bath time, i have introduced kei to some vital parts of her body. I tell her that the only ones who can touch them are only her. If anyone does, then tell mommy or grandma. We, as parents, must not play with our kids' vital body parts since it may be regarded as acceptable by them. 

I have to stop on this one. NEVER let anyone especially the ones of a different gender, bathe your child or take parts in anything related to you child's cleanliness. After bath, don't let your child be naked in front of others. When you're in a public place and your child's T-shirt is dirty, don't directly change it in public and be seen by strangers. Go to the public restroom/nursing room, and change your child's clothes there. By doing this, it also means you respect your kids and their body. Build your children’s characters by respecting them. When the Prophet was conducting Salah Jamaah, he made it faster as he heard children of praying mothers crying. 


When parents don’t satisfy the natural urges and desires of the child, the child then resorts to wrong ways and means (often linked to sin) to try and give himself the necessary push to build his sense of self and importance. Personality, independence, will, self-trust, and likewise, weakness, baseness and lack of self-trust are all characteristics the foundations of which are in the lap of the father and bosom of the mother. A child who has not been treated like another human being or a valuable member of the family cannot be expected to have a well formed personality in adulthood.

Every day, Kei probably sees me offer the five mandatory prayers the most. She sometimes follows me doing them, and I hope it will be recognized by her soon that there is thing her mom does regularly and she never misses it so it must be really important and that she has Allah who sees whatever she does and says and protects her better than her mom. I wish I can teach her religious Islamic values as soon as possible :]

Don't be bossy to your children like grabbing their wrist when they do something wrong/bad. One of the duties of parents is to foster the innate nature of telling the truth in children. Their behavior in the house should be such that this becomes a habit. 

Oh my there's still a lot for me to learn and do. 

Tmelania

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A MAN WHO LOVES YOU

She said she wanted to get high.

He took her to the tallest hill in town.

She said she wanted to stay up all night and drink.

He gave her a 12 pack of caffeinated Pepsi and said, "drink up."

She said that she wanted to shoot herself in the face.

He gave her a water gun, put her finger on the trigger, and helped her pull the trigger.

She said that she wanted to cut herself.

He took a polaroid (photo) of her, handed it to her along with a pair of scissors, and had her cut it up.

She said that she wanted to see her blood.

He took her to get her ears pierced.

She said that she wanted to cry herself to sleep.

He had her watch a sad, romantic movie before bed.

She said that she wanted to be alone.

He gave her a name tag that said, "My name is Alone."

"Ya Allah, if I am to fall in love, let me touch the heart of someone whose heart is attached to You."

Dear Allah, please grant me a husband who will be the garment of my soul, who will satisfy half of my deen, who will be righteous and always on Your path, who will remind me to pray, who earns money and things from Halal sources, who always refers to Qur'an and Hadith, who uses Sunnah as his moral guide, who is always thankful to You and appreciate the woman by his side, who is always conscious of his anger, who often fasts and prays, who is charitable, who will honor and protect me, who can guide me in this worldly life, who loves me when I am with or without him.

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TOPENG MONYET SAMPAI RABIES

Assalamualaikum semuanya.. 

Tadi sempet nonton berita sore di TV, dan saya rada bingung tentang rencana Pemprov DKI untuk menghentikan pertunjukan topeng monyet di kota ini.

Dalam hati saya mikir kenapa juga harus menutup mata pencaharian rakyat kecil? Kan ngga merugikan juga toh, tanpa pakai kendaraan jadi ngga menyebabkan polusi.

Beruntungnya saya, beritanya lumayan lengkap jadi saya berubah pikiran di akhir acara. 

Dari jaman saya SD di Grogol dulu, nonton topeng monyet itu seakan tontonan harian, dan biasanya anak'' kecil berserta emak babenya langsung keluar rumah untuk nonton si monyet beraksi. Bedanya itu, kalo dulu setelah aksi bintang utamanya, dilanjutkan dengan mempertontonkan ular yang disimpan di bagian belakang tas kayu si abang'' itu.

Ntar ularnya dilingkari di leher atau dibiarkan meliuk'' di jalanan beraspal, tentu aja diawasi ya.

Jadi tontonannya bukan cuma si monyet.

Kalo sekarang ngga ada lagi aksi ularnya, mungkin karena mahal atau biaya akan lebih tinggi untuk menyewa ularnya. Entahlah.

Dari dulu sampe sekarang ngga berubah itu kalau nonton aksi topeng monyet, walaupun cuma sebentar tetep aja menghibur. Kita sebagai penonton sih nggak pernah kepikiran kok bisa ya si monyet begitu lincahnya main gendang, naik motor kayu, jalan dengan dua kaki sambil membawa payung, atau lompat sana sini mengikuti perintah si pemiliknya.

Ehhh ternyata, baru tahunya saya kalo ternyata untuk mencapai fase seperti diatas itu, si monyet perlu dilatih berat dan tersiksa. Leher si monyet dirantai lalu ditarik ke atas supaya dia mampu mengangkat dirinya sendiri hanya dengan dua kaki layaknya manusia. Belum lagi, dia kadang harus membungkuk untuk menopang sebuah batang kayu yang saya ngga tahu berapa beratnya agar dia bisa melakukan trik lainnya. 

Seringnya kita pastinya sekedar memberi seribu dua ribu rupiah buat si pemilik monyet itu, mau ngga ngasih kita kasihan, itu kan cara mencari nafkah si abang'', mau ngga ngasih kok kita pelit sekali. Namun, sekarang setelah lihat video tentang pelatihan monyet tersebut kita seakan mengiyakan eksploitasi monyet demi keuntungan si pemilik.

Sebenarnya sudah ada regulasi mengenai eksploitasi hewan di negara kita (UU Peternakan &Kesehatan Hewan yang baru disahkan; UU 16/2009 pasal 66 dan pasal 67), sayangnya belum ada sanksi hukum untuk para pelanggarnya. 

Alasan Pemprov DKI meng-ilegalkan pertunjukan topeng monyet bukan cuma terkait dengan monyet sebagai objek eksploitasi, tapi juga tentang kemungkinan penyebaran penyakit oleh si monyet itu. Seperti yang kita tahu, monyet, anjing, kucing adalah beberapa jenis binatang yang mampu menularkan virus rabies dengan mudah. 

Omong'' tentang rabies, saya mengerti kenapa Allah mengharamkan umatnya untuk terkena air liur anjing apalagi sampe memeliharanya di rumah kita (bukan sebagai pemburu), namun mohon tidak menyalah-artikan ini, Islam tidak membenci anjing; kami hanya dilarang menjadikannya binatang peliharaan. Jika kami terkena liurnya, kami harus mencuci bekasnya dengan amat bersih. klik disini untuk lebih jelasnya :)

Saya sempat lihat beberapa video para penderita rabies yang hanya menunggu ajal. Tangan dan kaki mereka diikat, dan mulutnya mengeluarkan liur atau lidahnya sengaja mereka julurkan. Ada juga yang mencoba melompat lari dari jendela atau tiba'' tertawa bahagia. Menyedihkan sekali, dan yang pasti mereka ngga bisa sembuh karena virusnya sudah mencapai otak.

Balik ke rencana Pak Jokowi nih, saya mah setuju saja yang penting Jakarta makin tertib, bersih, aman, dan nyaman :]

Tmelania

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TONGUE AND WHAT IT CAN DO TO US

Assalamualaikum....

How about trying to figure out this simple question?

Which part of our body is the least people care about but at the same time can bring danger to ourselves?

Our tongue. 

Yes, our tongue inside our mouth. Hidden, secure, and is rarely touched unless there's something I find bothering in my mouth.

Here are some facts about this small yet the strongest body part : 

Tongue is a structured muscles.

It has three primary roles : to speak, swallow, taste. 

It is considered that a tongue swallows approximately 2500 times a day.

There are more than 10.000 taste buds on our tongue which renew themselves for 100.000 per second.

The taste sense works together with the smelling sense and they can recognize up to 4.000 distinct odors.

Subhanallah, praise Allah the Omnipotent as the only One who can create it.

Luqman al-Hakim after slaughtering a goat was once asked about which body parts are the best and the worst from its body?

He mentioned the heart and the tongue.

"Heart and tongue are good when they are good; They are bad when they are bad."

Prophet Muhammad once referred the tongue as the main factor that can bring human race disaster.

There are so many illnesses of the tongue :

• speaking about useless things
• talking about/gossiping about others
• lying
• praising without basis and / criticizing others
• fighting, etc.
• making promises we don't fulfill

Abu Hurairah (May Allah be pleased with him) reported:

Messenger of Allah (pbuh) was asked about the deed which will be foremost to lead a man to Jannah. 

He replied, "Fear of Allah and the good conduct."    

Then he was asked about indulgence which will admit a man to Hell (Fire) and he answered,

 "The tongue and the genitals." [At- Tirmidhi].

Naudzubillah, astaghfirullah.

Hopefully, Allah will always guide our tongue so as to always speak good words. Amin. 

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CATATAN MALAM MINGGU TIDAK PENTING

Assalamualaikum :)

Malem semuanya. Masih melekkah? Saya iya.

Malam mingguan bareng keluarga yang membuat saya dan keluarga kecil saya harus berakhir di Balai Kota karena hujan gerimis mengundang hasrat tidur di pinggir jalan, hehehe. Nggak deng, karena mobil diparkir nun jauh di Gambir, sedangkan kami tidak membawa payung, dengan dua batita jadi saya dan beberapa anggota keluarga yang laen harus menunggu hingga dijemput.

Yah beginilah, nasib ibu'' dengan anak pecicilan. 

si bawel

ponakanku yg cantik :*

Tujuan awal tadi nganterin nyokap cari kulkas ke dua supermarket berbeda yang nantinya untuk ditaro di apartemen saya yang mo disewain, mencicil sedikit'' secara aliran dananya ngga deras nih, terus lanjut ke Monas deh. Lho kok, monas kenapa ngga ke Mall? Malam minggu begini nyokap  ngidam (sebenarnya dari minggu lalu) ingin sekali ke Monas. Mungkin ingin menikmati semilir angin sepoi'' sembari memandang langit dan Puncak Monas yang berkilauan kuning itu, hehehe. Eh apa daya, hujan turun jadinya menepi di Balai Kota ramai-ramai.



Monas malem tadi gak sepi, ada Night Market di area sekitarnya Balai Kota itu. Ada bazaar bermacam produk dari makanan, pakaian, sampai aksesoris. Kami sempet nikmatin nasi uduk ayam goreng / lele goreng (sayangnya abis) sama sosis bakar (duh itu sosis besar banget euy) sama es markisa. Kepinginnya liat'' kerudung, kali aja ada yang murah, cuma ngga kesampaian. 

sambelnya enak deh

ramenya

 Jam patrick dari Aunty Dewi untuk kekei :p

Pak Gubernur Jokowi makin menunjukkan kapabilitasnya nih, banyak yang sudah diperbaiki sedikit demi sedikit, yang pada komplen mah ke laut aja. Emangnya bisa membenahi Jakarta dalam waktu kurang dari setahun apa? Kalo Pak Jokowi sama Pak Basuki mencalonkan jadi Presiden tahun depan, saya sudah pasti bakalan milih bapak nih, ngga pakai tedeng aling mikir dua kali. Terbukti gitu lho sejauh ini: pkl tanah abang, waduk rio-rio, armada busway yang makin banyak, bis'' gak layak pakai dikandangin, pemindahan posisi mantan walikota jakarta xxx karena ketauan tidur saat rapat, dan beberapa lainnya. 
Semangat, ah sudahlah saya tidur dulu nih...

Tmelania

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KINDERJOY DILARANG DI LUAR NAMUN DIJUAL DI INDONESIA

Saat mampir di Hypermart Puri, anak saya Kei sempat minta dibelikan sejenis coklat, namanya Kinderjoy. Saya pernah dengar bahwa produk ini dilarang beredar di beberapa negara kaya Amerika, Kanada,  Jerman, Perancis, dan beberapa negara lain di Eropa.

Si Kinderjoy ini lumayan mahal untuk ukuran kecil begitu, hampir 10 ribu rupiah sebutir telurnya. Dalamnya ada dua bagian, satu bagian itu berisi coklat dengan lumeran coklat putih dan di tengahnya ada dua bola coklat sebentuk kaya Ferrero Roche cuma agak lebih kecil sedikit. Di bagian satunya terdapat bagian'' mainan kecil terbuat dari plastik, dengan kertas petunjuk (yang juga berukuran kecil). Mainannya kaya potongan'' puzzle yang bisa membentuk menjadi sesuatu. Saya buang mainannya, karena males bikinnya dan ngga berguna juga untuk Kei, dan juga terlalu rumit untuk anak seumur Kei untuk bisa menyusunnya. Di dalamnya juga ada sendok plastik mini warna putih di bagian tengah.

Kinderjoya dijual dengan nama berbeda-beda di beberapa negara. Ada yang bilang Kinder Surprise, Kinder Sorpresa (Italia). Di Amerika, si coklat ini ilegal lho karena berpotensi menyebabkan kematian. Terang saja, mainannya itu kecil-kecil, kalo misalkan anak nggak sengaja menelan satu bagian aja terus tersedak dan menyangkut, wah bahaya berat itu mah. Tahun 2000 lalu di Inggris, tiga anak dari orangtua yang sama meninggal karena menelan mainan si telur ini.

Di Eropa, mainan'' Kinderjoy ini jadi barang koleksi, karena dari satu tipe mainan ada beberapa figur atau jenisnya. Kaya mainan yang kita dapat kalo beli Happy Meal di McD kali ya, cuma kan memang ukurannya lebih besar.

Alasan utama kenapa Kinderjoy ini ilegal itu karena si coklat ini kan sebenernya makanan, terus di dalam telur coklatnya ada mainan yang notabene bukanlah makanan. Ini yang dilarang, memasukkan benda yang tak bisa dimakan ke dalam sebuah produk makanan. Gitu lho, ngerti ngga? bingung ya saya jelasinnya, hehehe. Selain itu, Kinderjoy dianggap sebagai jenis makanan yang tidak memiliki nutrisi.

Anehnya banyak sekali yang menyayangkan larangan beredarnya produk ini, karena banyak yang suka dengan rasanya yang memang miripi dengan coklat prmeium Ferrero Roche dengan tambahan coklat putih. Pantes aja mahal ya bow, hehe.

Selebihnya, terserah orangtua mau membolehkan anak''nya makan produk ini atau ngga, tapi mainannya dikeluarkan lebih dulu deh :]

Tmelania

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MIRACULOUS BREAST MILK

Assalamualaikum, good morning good people.. 

Starting the weekend, why not start with something useful? Hehehee, I do hope everyone who happens to have dropped by here a happy day and a healthy body.

Two things we are always granted with yet rarely feel grateful for are health and happiness. Human beings can really be selfish, can't they?

I have been thinking about posting something about breast milk for so long, but didn't really know how I would start it off with. Maybe, I'll just try to be as honest as possible, that may be acceptable :)

The truth is that before I delivered my daughter, i had read loads of websites and forums on mother's milk and how it would be better compared to formula milk.

Three first days after she was born, it was painful. There were times when i felt like I had enough of it but that's it. There were times when I had to look for a nursing room in a mall because Kei was insisting on being fed. There were times when I didn't feel like pumping and keeping stock in the fridge because of the tiring and time consuming breast milk management. Still, I survive. :) Whatever it is as long as it is for her, I will try to do my best.

Kei is currently still breastfeeding, but only before her bedtime. Other than that, I always try to give her as much formula / fresh milk as possible. 

Honestly, some of my female relatives aren't like me; I mean, they have been giving their child/children formula milk even since they were born. Many reasons for doing so and I was only a little bothered by the excuses. However, I have seen that their children are as healthy as my child is. But in terms of their frequency of being sick or catching cold/cough, my child is better. Kei doesn't get sick very often compared to her cousins. And the reason that formula milk contains a lot of fat makes her cousins even the ones younger than her normally are bigger than her. Kei used to be addicted to breast milk, whenever she was given the option of choosing one she would always prefer me :)

I believe that becoming a mother (for every woman) is natural, and the phases following it are also as natural as they can be. When God prepares you to be a mother I am sure that He also prepares us either emotionally and physically. One of which is the ability of our body to produce milk; and that whatever it is that comes from the Creator is far much better that what human beings can produce.

Allah states information related to it in Surah Al-Luqman (31:14)

وَوَصَّيْنَا الْإِنسَانَ بِوَالِدَيْهِ حَمَلَتْهُ أُمُّهُ وَهْنًا عَلَىٰ وَهْنٍ وَفِصَالُهُ فِي عَامَيْنِ أَنِ اشْكُرْ لِي وَلِوَالِدَيْكَ إِلَيَّ الْمَصِيرُ

(Wawassayna alinsana biwalidayhi hamalathu ommuhu wahnan AAala wahnin wafisaluhu fee AAamayni ani oshkur lee waliwalidayka ilayya almaseeru) 

"And We recommended/commanded the human with his parents, his mother carried/conceived/was pregnant (with) him weakness/feebleness on weakness/feebleness, and his weaning/separation in two years, that thank/be grateful to Me and to your parents, to Me (is) the end/destination."

Whatever it is, every mother has the right to choose what's best for their children, moms have really good maternal instincts. 

Tmelania

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Sujudnya Hati

Bismillah.

Yang teragung dan termulia, untukMu Tuhanku. Pemilik hatiku selamanya.

“Tika rintik-rintik jernih ini mulai jatuh,

tersendu sepi dalam sujud.

Longlai dan lemah.

Betapa Dia lagi berbisik, memujuk hati untuk kuat.

Hati, tidakkah engkau dengari?

Hati, tidakkah engkau renungi?

Bait-bait kalam-Nya yang terselit.

Membawa seribu erti untuk diteliti.

Justeru hati, kenapa masih ingin berdukacita lagi?”

Bila kesedihan mulai datang mengetuk pintu hati, bila kesepian datang tanpa diundang, maka saya akan duduk lama-lama di laman ini.

Mengamati dan merenungi dalam-dalam.

Untuk setiap baris kalam yang tersusun.

Pada setiap perkataan yang telah dilakarkan.

Tulisan yang saya tinta tika iman tersangat ‘kritikal’ dan semasa iman sedang sihat.

Ternyata, ada banyak bezanya.

Menulis, untuk saya luah setiap isi hati.

Bukan sekadar luahan, tetapi sebagai muhasabah ke arah kebaikan.

Mengetuk diri yang mungkin sedang kelalaian.

Memujuk hati yang lagi sedang keresahan.

Ya, ‘islah’ untuk diri sendiri terutamanya.

Dan ingin menyelitkan manfaat bersama untuk semua orang.

Meski sentiasa sedari, diri banyak kekurangan dan kelemahan.

Banyak…tak terhitung, malahan merasa tidak layak untuk semua pujian yang sering singgah senyap-senyap di inbox fb.

Allah…andai mereka mengetahui betapa rapuhnya diri ini…andai mereka mengetahui betapa lemahnya diri ini, pasti tidak akan ada yang sudi untuk singgah ke laman ini…

*serius mahu nangis*

Namun, di sisi tulisan inilah cuba untuk saya cari kekuatan yang mendalam.

Mencari kekuatan yang kadang-kadang hilang tika diri penasaran.

Mencari kembali kekuatan iman.

Iman, yang sememangnya ia mempunyai sifat turun naik.

Nak kekalkan, harus istiqamah dengan amalan.

Harus sentiasa rapatkan diri dengan Tuhan.

Nak jatuh? Mudah sekali dengan bisikan syaitan.

“Iblis berkata: ‘Ya Tuhanku, beri tangguhlah aku sampai hari mereka dibangkitkan.’ Allah berfirman: ‘Sesungguhnya kamu termasuk orang-orang yang diberi tangguh, sampai kepada hari yang telah ditentukan waktunya (hari kiamat)’. Iblis menjawab: ‘Demi kekuasaan Engkau aku akan menyesatkan mereka semuanya, kecuali hamba-hamba-Mu yang mukhlis di antara mereka.” (Shâd [38] : 79-83)

*Noted: kecuali hamba yang mukhlis, yang punyai hati yang bersih dan tulus.

Allahurabbi.

Tunduk kepala kerana teramat malu padaMu... Mukhliskah aku?

“Ikhlaskanlah, dengan keyakinan dan kepercayaan pada sudut qalbu yang paling dalam.”

Sujudnya hati.

Andai hati bisa 'bersujud', maka anggota tubuh yang lain juga pasti akan mudah untuk tunduk bersujud pada-Nya.

Sujudnya hati, ibarat sang abid yang terus mendidik hatinya untuk terus akur, pasrah dan redha pada semua takdir Allah.

Di saat hati merasa sunyi, cukuplah menghiburkan diri dengan kalam Allah.

Alunan zikrullah mampu mengubati lelah dan duka.

Di saat hati mulai merapuh, ingin pasakkan kembali keyakinan pada-Nya teguh-teguh.

Allahu allah…akui, bukan semudah kalam yang tertinta.

Hati yang sekecil itu, betapa ajaibnya ia dapat menampung pelbagai rasa.

Rasa yang kadang-kadang penat, lelah, letih pada dunia.

Rasa yang ingin cepat-cepat kembali pulang ke sisiNya.

Namun, layakkah diri pulang dengan ‘tersenyum’ di sana?

Hati, bersujudlah dahulu. 

Sepenuhnya.

“Bila kau letih dan hilang semangat,

Allah tahu betapa kau telah mencuba sedaya upaya. 

Bila tangisanmu berpanjangan, Allah telah mengira titisan air matamu. 

Bila kau rasa ketinggalan dan masa meninggalkan mu, Allah sentiasa disisimu. 

Bila kau telah mencuba segalanya tapi tidak tahu tujuan, Allah ada penyelesaiannya. 

Bila tiada yang bererti buatmu, keliru dan kecewa, Allah adalah jawapannya."

Sungguh-sungguh.

Mahu redha untuk semua ujianNya.

Mahu redha untuk segala dugaanNya.

Redha itu buah dari kesabaran.

Ditempa dengan jalan mujahadah yang cukup perit.

Tetapi isi buah itu tersangat manis kelak.

Ya, suatu hari kelak.

Sentiasa ingin yakin pada janji Ilahi.

Setia menunggu jawapanNya untuk setiap sujud di dinihari.

Terus menanti.

Moga suatu hari nanti Allah sudi.

Menjawabnya dengan huluran penuh cinta.

Pada setiap bait-bait doa.

Allahumma amin....

*Hati tersangat rapuh saat ini, pohon ehsan kalian mendoakan penulis agar dithabatkan iman dalam ketenangan…barakallahulakum aidan*

 : hikmatul islam

: 18102013

: 0800pm

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